This didn't have to happen.

Midtown Plaza could have remained the vibrant retail and community center that it once was. We just didn't want it to.

This is indeed another of my regional-planning rants, but facts are facts. We have traded a vibrant downtown retail center for half a dozen suburban malls with little advantage or interest beyond convenience for the shoppers who live nearby. (And if I lived in Greece, I'm not sure I'd count a mall's "convenience" as a plus, given the traffic on Ridge Road.)

Goodbye, then, to Midtown Plaza, a place that made me think, when I moved here 43 years ago, that I had moved to a real city.

When it closed last week, Midtown was a shadow of the marvel it once was, back when department stores were real department stores, and throngs of people stood at the crosswalk that connected Sibley's and Midtown, waiting for the light to change.

Not enough people wanted to keep that experience. And too many people moved to the outer suburbs. And so when the developers built the suburban malls, people went there to shop, shunning the downtown they had once depended on for clothing, gifts, furniture, towels, and yes, for some, even groceries.

Convenience mattered more.

I'm sure it's just a coincidence, but let me point out that once upon a time, the population of the Rochester area was growing. While we were building those malls, though, and while we were building all of those suburban housing developments, that population growth began to slow. And now, in the entire region - in all six counties except Ontario - the population has begun to decline.

We keep right on building outward, though.

According to news reports, in some parts of the country people are moving closer to where they work because of high gas prices. And the Wall Street Journal reported recently that some cities have their eyes on Sacramento as a possible model for planning. Sacramento has adopted growth controls and is encouraging new construction in densely developed areas.

Could that happen here?

Don't hold your breath.

Kent Gardner at Rochester's Center for Governmental Research says we can't draw many parallels between Rochester and Sacramento, or between Rochester and places like California and Chicago, where traffic congestion makes commuting a nightmare. "Rush hour" in Greater Rochester is laughably tame, he notes.

It'll take more than high gas prices, says Gardner, to put a serious dent in our sprawl. What would it take? "Getting people to change how they think about where they build," Gardner says. And, of course, getting them to think about where they live.

We're beginning to see signs of change. So far, new downtown housing developments have done well, and it'll be a very good sign if Buckingham's big multi-use development on the Genesee Hospital site fills up quickly. But construction continues in the suburbs, as well. New developments are proposed for open space along the Erie Canal in Brighton. The Monroe County Water Authority has just gotten permission to build a new plant in Webster, which is almost certain to foster new development farther out from the city.

Our sprawl is due to mindset, more than anything. We complain about gas prices and about the high cost of government that sprawl feeds. But until we want a different kind of community, we'll keep doing what we've been doing.

Maybe we just don't have a clear sense of what we want to be. We mourn the closing of Midtown, but too few people wanted to shop there. We want a vibrant community, with healthy retail and arts, but we think we can have one without a strong central core.

Our vision, I guess, is of a community of separate little communities.

Or whatever develops.

That's what we have. And that's what we'll get in the future.